Reflection: I never tire of holding babies, cuddling them, smiling at them and enjoying them. I find them irresistible and easy to delight in. Of course, if they’re your own babies, they also have their challenges! Whether you’re a ‘baby person’ or not, none of us want babies to remain as babies. As parents we work hard to bring our children to maturity.
And the same is true of Paul. Paul contrasts his picture of the church as infants in verse 14 with that of it as the ‘mature body of Christ’ in verses 15-16.
He sees the antidote to the problem of Christian immaturity as truth and love. Christians are to be people who ‘speak the truth in love’ and a body which ‘grows and builds itself up in love’. Love here is about both speaking and doing, and love and Christian truth must be held together in pursuit of Christian maturity. John Stott writes that “Truth becomes hard if it is not softened by love; love becomes soft if it is not strengthened by truth” (The Message of Ephesians, John Stott, p172).
In holding together Christian love and Christian truth, we all have a tendency to skew in one direction or the other. What is your natural tendency and how can you work together with Christians around you to make sure that we are a church that ‘speaks the truth in love’ and ‘grows and builds itself up in love’?
Prayer: Heavenly Father, speaking the truth in love seems beyond us much of the time. Help us to do this so that we grow to maturity as the body of Christ. Amen.