Reflection:Â Words, as beautiful and empowering as they can be, can also be incredibly hurtful and alienating.
Many years ago, while a couple in our community was dating, a rumour began to spread about the character of this young woman. It tore them apart; it tore her apart and it damaged many lives.
Many of us don’t go out of our way to be a gossip, however we often fall into the ‘passive listener’ category where we allow someone else to gossip and we affirm them with our attention and occasional nods of agreement. In those moments, we can also choose to use our words to bring healing and stop the spread of dangerous lies (Ephesians 4:29-32).
Next time a conversation is happening about another person that you know isn’t healthy or beneficial, could you change the direction of the conversation? Provide God’s perspective or perhaps even say outright that you don’t think it’s right to talk about someone’s life when they’re not there to defend themselves.
Gossip cuts deep; could you bring healing with your words?
Prayer: Lord, forgive me for all the times I spoke ill about a person whom you sent your son Jesus to die for. Help me Lord, if it’s within my power, to stop the spread of rumours and to instead bring healing with my words. Amen.