14 day plan

Why Your Words Matter

Day 1 of 14

CEV

James 3:3-5

3By putting a bit into the mouth of a horse, we can turn the horse in different directions. 4It takes strong winds to move a large sailing ship, but the captain uses only a small rudder to make it go in any direction. 5Our tongues are small too, and yet they brag about big things.

It takes only a spark to start a forest fire!

Series Introduction:  Imagine standing before a blank canvas with hundreds of bottles of fresh paint before you. Each a rich shade colour with endless possibilities to blend and harmonise with other colours. As you consciously make a choice and dip your paintbrush into a bottle, something is birthed. The canvas will never be the same again and no other painting you do will be the same as this.

Every time you speak, did you know the same opportunity awaits?

Reflection:  I’ve always known the gravity of words, but working as a radio announcer at 89.9theLight has taught me that words are so much more than even that. Words are an opportunity to bring splashes of joy and laughter to a friend who’s been dealt with life’s blows. We can bring a soothing balm of healing to a loved one who needs that comfort. We can raise up a future leader with our words of advocacy or crush the petals of hope if we allow our words to be callous and rushed.

Take a quick look around you to see if anyone is watching, and then poke out your tongue. Give it a good wiggle to the left and right (okay you can pop it back in again!). This unassuming muscle can have the power to ignite both good and bad outcomes. One of the biggest mistakes we can make in life is to assume that our words don’t have that kind of power. One of the greatest things we can do is learn how to tame the tongue.

Prayer:  Lord God, help me to understand the power I wield when I speak to others and when I speak over myself. Help me to tame my tongue and allow your wisdom to guide my speech. From today, I ask you, Lord, to speak to me in this area of my life. Amen.

James 3:1-18

The Tongue

1My friends, we should not all try to become teachers. In fact, teachers will be judged more strictly than others. 2 All of us do many wrong things. But if you can control your tongue, you are mature and able to control your whole body.

3By putting a bit into the mouth of a horse, we can turn the horse in different directions. 4It takes strong winds to move a large sailing ship, but the captain uses only a small rudder to make it go in any direction. 5Our tongues are small too, and yet they brag about big things.

It takes only a spark to start a forest fire! 6 The tongue is like a spark. It is an evil power that dirties the rest of the body and sets a person's entire life on fire with flames that come from hell itself. 7All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and sea creatures can be tamed and have been tamed. 8But our tongues get out of control. They are restless and evil, and always spreading deadly poison.

9-10 My dear friends, with our tongues we speak both praises and curses. We praise our Lord and Father, and we curse people who were created to be like God, and this isn't right. 11Can clean water and dirty water both flow from the same spring? 12Can a fig tree produce olives or a grapevine produce figs? Does fresh water come from a well full of salt water?

Wisdom from Above

13 Are any of you wise or sensible? Then show it by living right and by being humble and wise in everything you do. 14But if your heart is full of bitter jealousy and selfishness, don't brag or lie to cover up the truth. 15This kind of wisdom doesn't come from above. It is earthly and selfish and comes from the devil himself. 16Whenever people are jealous or selfish, they cause trouble and do all sorts of cruel things. 17But the wisdom that comes from above leads us to be pure, friendly, gentle, sensible, kind, helpful, genuine, and sincere. 18When peacemakers plant seeds of peace, they will harvest justice.