Reflection: I remember last year we were about to head into the most crucial day of on-air fundraising. I had gone through an excruciating series of personal setbacks about 5 minutes before I went on air, and a co-worker asked me if I was doing okay. My voice wobbled, tears began falling and I said “No, I’m not okay”. Very gently but firmly, she placed her hands on my shoulders and looked me in the eyes and said, “Joy, I know you’re in pain. I know you are hurting, but you need to find that strength to do your job. Later you come see me and we will pray together.”
WOW. I was snapped awake.
She wasn’t out to belittle me, hurt me or squash what I was going through; she could see the truth and she spoke it out with compassion and authority and for that I am so grateful. In that moment, she used her words to break the belief that “I couldn’t do this” and minutes later I was back on air, living out my purpose. She showed great gentleness in tone, manner, and purpose but she also spoke some hard truths into my life. Have you ever been in a situation like this? How can you be ‘gentle’ with your speech in your life?
Prayer: Lord help me to be gentle in my motivation, tone, and manner as I speak truth to those under my care, those I love. Help me Lord, to listen to your gentle voice of instruction in areas of my life that need your revelation. Amen.