Reflection: In this series we will explore what it looks like to see our everyday lives through the eyes of God, and the Bible. We will follow Jesus in this process, taking a wander through the Gospel of Luke, watching how he engages with ordinary life.
As we begin on International Women’s Day, it is fitting to consider Jesus’ interaction with two of his friends…
Liberating women’s work
I’ve seen a lot written about this encounter between Jesus and two of his friends, Mary and Martha. The most common understanding is to praise Mary and criticise Martha.
It is true that Jesus seemed to do that, but does that mean we should elevate sacred over secular activities? Does that mean listening to Jesus’ teaching is more important than preparing a meal?
Here is an alternative reading of this story.
Jesus has turned up with a group of followers, and Martha has opened up her home to him. She immediately busies herself with the preparations for hospitality, and becomes grumpy that Mary is sitting at Rabbi Jesus’s feet. There are two possible reasons she gets upset. One is that Mary should be helping her with the preparations. The other is that Mary is taking the place of a disciple, at the feet of Jesus. Women were forbidden from sitting at the feet of a Rabbi.
However, Jesus liberates Martha from both those complaints.
He invites Martha to join them in conversation, and he affirms that Mary has every right to sit at his feet. He redefines women’s work in this context. There is no place that Martha has to be; and there is no place that Mary shouldn’t be.
Question: Are you constrained by ideas of what you should or shouldn’t do? Pray that Jesus would help you choose.
Prayer: Loving God, Thank you that Jesus addressed issues in the home, and taught us new ways of thinking. Thank you that he helped disadvantaged groups: women, children, those who were disabled, to discover new freedoms in relationship with him. Amen.