Reflection: Discipline is the process of training ourselves to obey rules or learn a particular behaviour. So, if I were to suggest that there is such a thing as a discipline of suffering, I wonder what your response might be?
We react against and run away from the idea of discipline because it speaks of work, effort, boring repetition, patience and perseverance. We also tend to run away from suffering because it causes discomfort and makes us feel pain. These options are not appealing. We would rather do something more enjoyable that makes us feel good.
Jesus never promised us a life of comfort and ease. He says we have to deny ourselves and take up our cross to follow him. It is something he invites us to do every day. Through doing this, we become people who follow his way and learn to become like him. So therefore, the discipline of suffering is about learning to deny ourselves, taking up our cross and following Christ each day, and not just when we feel like it.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, I want to be an imitator of you, to follow your ways. I acknowledge that sometimes this might mean going through some hard times. I pray that you would give me the courage to deny what I want and what I think is best for my life, and instead to daily take up my cross and follow you. Amen.