14 day plan

Passing on the Faith

Day 8 of 14

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Proverbs 23:12

Saying 12

12Apply your heart to instruction

and your ears to words of knowledge.

ReflectionThe discipline of faith

As we go through life, we learn many things along the way, but this is not what this verse from Proverbs is talking about. To ‘apply’ is a conscious decision. For the Hebrew reader, they understood ‘heart’ to refer to the centre of moral, emotional and thinking activities. It was also the place of desire, decision-making and discernment.

The second part of our verse refers to ears. To hear in Hebrew is to obey and take action, again, a conscious action.

We can help the children in our lives to develop habits of listening to and applying God’s word as it relates to what we are to do and what we are not to do. They will learn something of spiritual discipline through our modelling and instruction. As we articulate what God has been challenging us with, teaching us and reminding us of, we are helping the children in our lives to learn from us. As we help the children interact with the Scriptures, we can help them articulate what God is teaching them.

In order to learn, our heart and ears need to be open to being taught, encouraged and corrected. Let’s consider how this attitude of openness may be communicated to the children in our midst, so they see the connection between attitude, action and the application of the words of Scripture to our daily lives.

What are your daily practices that help you grow in Christian maturity? Do the children in your life know about these practices and why you engage in them?

Prayer:  Heavenly Father thank you that you lovingly and patiently teach us as your children, helping us to grow up in the faith through various spiritual disciplines and commitments to your word. Help us to be effective role models to those whose lives we wish to influence.  Amen.

Proverbs 23:1-35

Saying 7

1When you sit to dine with a ruler,

note well what is before you,

2and put a knife to your throat

if you are given to gluttony.

3Do not crave his delicacies,

for that food is deceptive.

Saying 8

4Do not wear yourself out to get rich;

do not trust your own cleverness.

5Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone,

for they will surely sprout wings

and fly off to the sky like an eagle.

Saying 9

6Do not eat the food of a begrudging host,

do not crave his delicacies;

7for he is the kind of person

who is always thinking about the cost.

“Eat and drink,” he says to you,

but his heart is not with you.

8You will vomit up the little you have eaten

and will have wasted your compliments.

Saying 10

9Do not speak to fools,

for they will scorn your prudent words.

Saying 11

10Do not move an ancient boundary stone

or encroach on the fields of the fatherless,

11for their Defender is strong;

he will take up their case against you.

Saying 12

12Apply your heart to instruction

and your ears to words of knowledge.

Saying 13

13Do not withhold discipline from a child;

if you punish them with the rod, they will not die.

14Punish them with the rod

and save them from death.

Saying 14

15My son, if your heart is wise,

then my heart will be glad indeed;

16my inmost being will rejoice

when your lips speak what is right.

Saying 15

17Do not let your heart envy sinners,

but always be zealous for the fear of the Lord.

18There is surely a future hope for you,

and your hope will not be cut off.

Saying 16

19Listen, my son, and be wise,

and set your heart on the right path:

20Do not join those who drink too much wine

or gorge themselves on meat,

21for drunkards and gluttons become poor,

and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

Saying 17

22Listen to your father, who gave you life,

and do not despise your mother when she is old.

23Buy the truth and do not sell it—

wisdom, instruction and insight as well.

24The father of a righteous child has great joy;

a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him.

25May your father and mother rejoice;

may she who gave you birth be joyful!

Saying 18

26My son, give me your heart

and let your eyes delight in my ways,

27for an adulterous woman is a deep pit,

and a wayward wife is a narrow well.

28Like a bandit she lies in wait

and multiplies the unfaithful among men.

Saying 19

29Who has woe? Who has sorrow?

Who has strife? Who has complaints?

Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?

30Those who linger over wine,

who go to sample bowls of mixed wine.

31Do not gaze at wine when it is red,

when it sparkles in the cup,

when it goes down smoothly!

32In the end it bites like a snake

and poisons like a viper.

33Your eyes will see strange sights,

and your mind will imagine confusing things.

34You will be like one sleeping on the high seas,

lying on top of the rigging.

35“They hit me,” you will say, “but I’m not hurt!

They beat me, but I don’t feel it!

When will I wake up

so I can find another drink?”