14 day plan

Reflections for Father's Day

Day 9 of 14

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Hebrews 13:4

4Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Reflection:  The importance of commitment

Faithfulness is an expression of commitment, and the clearest picture of commitment is God’s faithfulness towards the sanctity of marriage.

With marriages failing all around us, many Christians fight to maintain their commitment to the institution of marriage, fearful of the sense of failure and congregational disgrace were their marriage to be seen to disintegrate. Understandably, there have been, and are, many unhappy marriages. I’ve been married to Lynne for 44 years and during those years my faithfulness as a husband was indeed tested. I passed.

Lynne has one of the most generous hearts I have ever encountered. Yet, I reacted to her aloofness at times, she to my lack of sensitivity. Together we acknowledged these relational realities, chose to weather the storms that erupted and continued to build a commitment to marriage based upon mutual love, nurture, and respect. Without commitment, all we have are idle promises.

Question:  How has marriage, or not being married, affected you?

Prayer:  Dear Lord, thank you for your unconditional love for me. Help me to be faithful, loving and committed to in all my relationships (especially in my marriage). Amen.

 

Hebrews 13:1-25

Concluding Exhortations

1Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. 2Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it. 3Continue to remember those in prison as if you were together with them in prison, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering.

4Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. 5Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,

“Never will I leave you;

never will I forsake you.”

6So we say with confidence,

“The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.

What can mere mortals do to me?”

7Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. 8Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

9Do not be carried away by all kinds of strange teachings. It is good for our hearts to be strengthened by grace, not by eating ceremonial foods, which is of no benefit to those who do so. 10We have an altar from which those who minister at the tabernacle have no right to eat.

11The high priest carries the blood of animals into the Most Holy Place as a sin offering, but the bodies are burned outside the camp. 12And so Jesus also suffered outside the city gate to make the people holy through his own blood. 13Let us, then, go to him outside the camp, bearing the disgrace he bore. 14For here we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come.

15Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess his name. 16And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.

17Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you.

18Pray for us. We are sure that we have a clear conscience and desire to live honorably in every way. 19I particularly urge you to pray so that I may be restored to you soon.

Benediction and Final Greetings

20Now may the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd of the sheep, 21equip you with everything good for doing his will, and may he work in us what is pleasing to him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

22Brothers and sisters, I urge you to bear with my word of exhortation, for in fact I have written to you quite briefly.

23I want you to know that our brother Timothy has been released. If he arrives soon, I will come with him to see you.

24Greet all your leaders and all the Lord’s people.

Those from Italy send you their greetings.

25Grace be with you all.