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Reflections for Father's Day

Day 14 of 14

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Proverbs 22:6

6Start children off on the way they should go,

and even when they are old they will not turn from it.

Reflection:  The Challenges of Parenthood

It’s our responsibility to guide our kids. Not the school, not the government, but you—as a parent.

Being a parent is a privilege and responsibility with huge dividends for children when we are present and engaged in their lives. I love being a dad/grandad! But honestly, being a parent is one of the greatest challenges.

Truth be told, many parents are hurting today because of the foolish decisions of their children. In naivety I used to think I could always draw a line connecting the bad choices of a child with the failings of their parent. I see things differently now. I know of many godly (not perfect) parents who have modelled for their kids what it means to follow Christ only to have their hearts broken by children who have pursued one horrible choice after another. If you look closely, you can see pain in their eyes.

Question:  Are you aware God is drawing prodigal after prodigal back into relationship with their Father? So don’t give up!

Prayer:  Dear Heavenly Father, we lift our children to you. Make us worthy of the high calling of parenthood. Gently lead us in the ways of integrity and righteousness so that our children may see us as an example worth following. In him, Amen.

Proverbs 22:1-29

1A good name is more desirable than great riches;

to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.

2Rich and poor have this in common:

The Lord is the Maker of them all.

3The prudent see danger and take refuge,

but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.

4Humility is the fear of the Lord;

its wages are riches and honor and life.

5In the paths of the wicked are snares and pitfalls,

but those who would preserve their life stay far from them.

6Start children off on the way they should go,

and even when they are old they will not turn from it.

7The rich rule over the poor,

and the borrower is slave to the lender.

8Whoever sows injustice reaps calamity,

and the rod they wield in fury will be broken.

9The generous will themselves be blessed,

for they share their food with the poor.

10Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife;

quarrels and insults are ended.

11One who loves a pure heart and who speaks with grace

will have the king for a friend.

12The eyes of the Lord keep watch over knowledge,

but he frustrates the words of the unfaithful.

13The sluggard says, “There’s a lion outside!

I’ll be killed in the public square!”

14The mouth of an adulterous woman is a deep pit;

a man who is under the Lord’s wrath falls into it.

15Folly is bound up in the heart of a child,

but the rod of discipline will drive it far away.

16One who oppresses the poor to increase his wealth

and one who gives gifts to the rich—both come to poverty.

Thirty Sayings of the Wise

Saying 1

17Pay attention and turn your ear to the sayings of the wise;

apply your heart to what I teach,

18for it is pleasing when you keep them in your heart

and have all of them ready on your lips.

19So that your trust may be in the Lord,

I teach you today, even you.

20Have I not written thirty sayings for you,

sayings of counsel and knowledge,

21teaching you to be honest and to speak the truth,

so that you bring back truthful reports

to those you serve?

Saying 2

22Do not exploit the poor because they are poor

and do not crush the needy in court,

23for the Lord will take up their case

and will exact life for life.

Saying 3

24Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person,

do not associate with one easily angered,

25or you may learn their ways

and get yourself ensnared.

Saying 4

26Do not be one who shakes hands in pledge

or puts up security for debts;

27if you lack the means to pay,

your very bed will be snatched from under you.

Saying 5

28Do not move an ancient boundary stone

set up by your ancestors.

Saying 6

29Do you see someone skilled in their work?

They will serve before kings;

they will not serve before officials of low rank.