7 day plan

Why Unity Matters

Day 7 of 7

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1 Peter 3:8-9

Suffering for Doing Good

8Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.

Reflection:

Today we are reading the Bible with Susannah McFarlane, the Head of Publishing for Bible Society Australia. Susannah came to faith eight years ago and is still amazed at the grace of God.

This is where the rubber hits the road as a Jesus follower.

We can all sign up to love, sometimes even forgive, those we love, and those who love us (Jesus was on to that — that’s why he pointed out that even those much-maligned tax collectors could do it, in Matthew 5:46). But what about those we don’t love and who don’t love us?

Hmmm, not so much.

Yet that’s what we are called to do — all of us, not just the more saintly ones who are better at it than I am. As The Message paraphrase says ‘That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm.’

Loving, Jesus-style, is hard, it costs us — it costs us our indignation, our pride, our sense of injustice maybe. We are commanded to put it all to one side and not just endure or bear with others, but love those who are mean, bossy and hurtful to us.

Yuck.

‘As far as it is up to you be at peace with everyone.’ (Romans 12:18)

There it is again — ‘everyone.’ Gulp.

Yet that is where true reconciliation and unity happen. When we have put everyone, others, ahead of ourselves — indeed when we don’t ‘other’ people — but see all as they are, worthy of love, our love, even if and as they hate us.

We are indeed blessed to be a blessing, but we don’t have to do it by ourselves — we can ask the one who didn’t just ask us to do it, he showed us how.

Now I am wondering who I could be a bit more Jesus-like towards today ….

Prayer:

Jesus, you know us well; you know we find it hard to love those who don’t love us. Thank you that you have gone before us and shown us what it looks like to love unconditionally, even those who hate you. Help us to be like you and in so doing, make the world a little less broken, a little more joined up.

Help me to be at peace with everyone.

Amen.

Days

1 Peter 3:1-22

1Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

7Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

Suffering for Doing Good

8Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10For,

“Whoever would love life

and see good days

must keep their tongue from evil

and their lips from deceitful speech.

11They must turn from evil and do good;

they must seek peace and pursue it.

12For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous

and his ears are attentive to their prayer,

but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”

13Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? 14But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.” 15But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, 16keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. 17For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. 18For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. 19After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits— 20to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In it only a few people, eight in all, were saved through water, 21and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you also—not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God. It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22who has gone into heaven and is at God’s right hand—with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him.