14 day plan

Opening the Bible Together

Day 14 of 14

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Philemon 1:10-13

10that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. 11Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.

12I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel.

Reflection:  Today I want you to place yourself in Onesimus’ position.

Yes, you ran away from your master Philemon. But that was a long time ago. That was the old you. You ended up in Rome and heard the good news of Jesus. Since that day you have served tirelessly to support the apostle Paul, and to further God’s kingdom (v11). Paul is very fond of you (v12, 16) and calls you his son (v10).

Why is Paul sending you back to Philemon? Why can’t you stay in Rome and continue the ministry? Why must we bring up old hurts and problems from so far away? They were so long ago, and before your life of faith and love began…

This is an inconvenient truth. God wants us to attempt reconciliation with those we have wronged, even from a long time ago, even if it happened before we became Christians. It may well be hard. It may well involve significant time and effort. You cannot control how your offer will be received, but you can try.

Who do you need to apologise to? Will you try to copy Onesimus?

Prayer: Dear Lord, help us to hear your word and follow your Spirit. Show us who we need to say sorry to from our past. Give us your strength to practically do so, even this very day. In the name of Jesus our Saviour, Amen.

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Divine Judgment

Philemon 1:1-25

1Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,

To Philemon our dear friend and fellow worker— 2also to Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier—and to the church that meets in your home:

3Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Thanksgiving and Prayer

4I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers, 5because I hear about your love for all his holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus. 6I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.

Paul’s Plea for Onesimus

8Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus— 10that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. 11Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.

12I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel. 14But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would not seem forced but would be voluntary. 15Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever— 16no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord.

17So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. 18If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me. 19I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand. I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in Christ. 21Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.

22And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in answer to your prayers.

23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings.

24And so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow workers.

25The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

The Holy Bible, New International Version® NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by Permission of Biblica, Inc.® All rights reserved worldwide.