Reflection: My Connections Influence My Direction
Our real and personal relationship with God through our faith in Jesus is a profound privilege that should lead us forward in every area of our lives. While belonging to a church or smaller connect groups will never replace our individual access to God, God has also grafted us into his family, the Body of Christ, where we gain invaluable support and growth through fellowship with other believers.
Godly connections have the power to:
Pull Me Up: “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9, ESV). This verse reminds us of our need for mutual support, especially within a faith community, to help lift and pull us up. We all journey from strength to strength but inevitably face challenges and may not always feel strong in our faith. I’m grateful for the strength and encouragement I receive from my connection with others in God’s family during difficult times.
Build Me Up: “… holding fast to the Head, from whom the whole body, nourished and knit together through its joints and ligaments, grows with a growth that is from God.” (Colossians 2:19b, ESV). This verse reminds us that when we are connected, we are mutually blessed! We receive from God through each other, nourishing both the recipient and the giver. These relationships shift our focus onto more than just ourselves. They position us to serve others and draw strength from that service.
Pull Me Forward: My connection with others allows me to be impacted by God’s momentum in their lives. If I were riding a bike, I would have the ability to generate some momentum on my own. However, like a cyclist pulled by a car, through my connection with others, I benefit from the momentum of greater power than just my own. While God leads each of us personally, connection with devoted men and women of God accelerates my journey by drawing me along in their pursuit of him.
Keep Me Grounded: Strong connections ground us, not by restricting movement, but by preventing us from being swayed by circumstances. Like guy-ropes, tight-knit relationships brace us, strengthening our resilience against life’s storms. The apostle Paul talks about the importance of unity in the body of Christ: “And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God.” (Ephesians 4:11-13a, ESV) . Just as Christ is our anchor, these relationships serve as outriggers and buoys, providing stability amidst the turmoil.
Past experiences can challenge our faith. During these times, remember we’re not meant to navigate faith alone. Build strong connections in the house of God through small groups, service, and active involvement. Let these connections brace you and strengthen you.
Prayer:
God, thank you for the gift of community and the strength we find in our connections with one another. Help me to recognise the value of the relationships you’ve placed in my life and guide me to be a source of encouragement and growth for others. May I continue to be built up in faith and support those around me as we journey together toward maturity in Christ. Keep us grounded in your love and remind us that we are never alone. Amen.