3 day plan

Not Alone - Part 2

Day 2 of 3

NIV

Proverbs 27:17

17As iron sharpens iron,

so one person sharpens another.

This simple Proverb illustrates an important biblical lesson. God expects us to do life with other believers and to build authentic relationships with them.

Sometimes as mums it can be easy to fall into surface relationships. You know: the kind of friendship where we gather and talk about our babies, what our partners haven’t done, or the behaviour of the kids. If we are not careful, mums groups or the school pick up crowd can be a breeding ground for feeling dissatisfied with our lives.

Heart relationships go beyond just discussion. A friendship with someone needs to involve more than just reflecting and discussing a problem and stopping there. A friend sharpens a friend by addressing the problem, planning for a solution and holding each other accountable. Obviously, this can’t happen with every person you talk with! But making sure you are open to more than just discussing problems is a necessary part of growth as a woman, mum and leader.

Question
Who could you connect with today?

Prayer
Father, you created us for community, yet so often we forget or are too afraid to be real with those we are doing life with. Make us aware of the times we need to move beyond discussing a problem and assist someone to plan for a solution and keep them accountable. Help us too to humbly accept when others hold us accountable. Amen.

Days

Proverbs 27:1-27

1Do not boast about tomorrow,

for you do not know what a day may bring.

2Let someone else praise you, and not your own mouth;

an outsider, and not your own lips.

3Stone is heavy and sand a burden,

but a fool’s provocation is heavier than both.

4Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming,

but who can stand before jealousy?

5Better is open rebuke

than hidden love.

6Wounds from a friend can be trusted,

but an enemy multiplies kisses.

7One who is full loathes honey from the comb,

but to the hungry even what is bitter tastes sweet.

8Like a bird that flees its nest

is anyone who flees from home.

9Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart,

and the pleasantness of a friend

springs from their heartfelt advice.

10Do not forsake your friend or a friend of your family,

and do not go to your relative’s house when disaster strikes you—

better a neighbor nearby than a relative far away.

11Be wise, my son, and bring joy to my heart;

then I can answer anyone who treats me with contempt.

12The prudent see danger and take refuge,

but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.

13Take the garment of one who puts up security for a stranger;

hold it in pledge if it is done for an outsider.

14If anyone loudly blesses their neighbor early in the morning,

it will be taken as a curse.

15A quarrelsome wife is like the dripping

of a leaky roof in a rainstorm;

16restraining her is like restraining the wind

or grasping oil with the hand.

17As iron sharpens iron,

so one person sharpens another.

18The one who guards a fig tree will eat its fruit,

and whoever protects their master will be honored.

19As water reflects the face,

so one’s life reflects the heart.

20Death and Destruction are never satisfied,

and neither are human eyes.

21The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold,

but people are tested by their praise.

22Though you grind a fool in a mortar,

grinding them like grain with a pestle,

you will not remove their folly from them.

23Be sure you know the condition of your flocks,

give careful attention to your herds;

24for riches do not endure forever,

and a crown is not secure for all generations.

25When the hay is removed and new growth appears

and the grass from the hills is gathered in,

26the lambs will provide you with clothing,

and the goats with the price of a field.

27You will have plenty of goats’ milk to feed your family

and to nourish your female servants.