It can be easy to fall into ‘tit for tat’ thinking: if I do something for someone, then they will owe me one. Even in Christian circles, this transactional nature of generosity is commonplace and sometimes the Bible can be used to prop up this understanding.
But I think being generous leads to a transformation in the giver. Being generous out of love provides a place in our heart to know God’s generous love for us. Generosity isn’t transactional, it is transformational.
As mums we generously give our bodies, our time (and our minds!) over to our children and for many years, we don’t expect anything back from them. Spending time watching a content baby sleep blissfully on our chest after being fed provides us with a refreshing of the spirit, no matter what we have endured for the prior 45 minutes. It is that generous love we so willingly give to our small children, without expectation, that will transform our homes into loving, prosperous places.
Question
Do you do things with the expectation of the favour being returned (by your partner, child or friend) or because of the generous spirit within you?
Prayer
Father, thank you for the gift of your Son, given to us with the ability to transform our eternal future. Help us to remember to give like you do.