7 day plan

Becoming a Godly Father

Day 6 of 7


Proverbs 19:21

21Many are the plans in a person’s heart,

but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.

Reflection:   For further reference, please see Jeremiah 29:11

I like planning and strategising for the future, and as a father, they include the hopes and dreams I have for my daughter. As I’m sure my parents had for me growing up, and although I’m not sure everything my parents planned for my life has come to pass, the purposes of God for my life, to love him and to serve him have endured.

As we’ve experienced, particularly in this pandemic season, plans can fall apart in a moment. But the purpose and calling of the Lord for our lives remains. So we ought to commit the plans for our lives and our children’s lives to God, and pray that our Father’s will may be done on earth as it is in heaven.

I’m confident we can trust God with our future.

Question:  Do we include God in our planning for the future? Or is it more of an afterthought and we pray God blesses it?

Prayer:  Lord, I pray my hopes and dreams may be in accordance with your will. I thank you that your purpose will stand, and I know I can trust that you hold my future in your hands. Amen


Proverbs 19:1-29

1Better the poor whose walk is blameless

than a fool whose lips are perverse.

2Desire without knowledge is not good—

how much more will hasty feet miss the way!

3A person’s own folly leads to their ruin,

yet their heart rages against the Lord.

4Wealth attracts many friends,

but even the closest friend of the poor person deserts them.

5A false witness will not go unpunished,

and whoever pours out lies will not go free.

6Many curry favor with a ruler,

and everyone is the friend of one who gives gifts.

7The poor are shunned by all their relatives—

how much more do their friends avoid them!

Though the poor pursue them with pleading,

they are nowhere to be found.

8The one who gets wisdom loves life;

the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.

9A false witness will not go unpunished,

and whoever pours out lies will perish.

10It is not fitting for a fool to live in luxury—

how much worse for a slave to rule over princes!

11A person’s wisdom yields patience;

it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.

12A king’s rage is like the roar of a lion,

but his favor is like dew on the grass.

13A foolish child is a father’s ruin,

and a quarrelsome wife is like

the constant dripping of a leaky roof.

14Houses and wealth are inherited from parents,

but a prudent wife is from the Lord.

15Laziness brings on deep sleep,

and the shiftless go hungry.

16Whoever keeps commandments keeps their life,

but whoever shows contempt for their ways will die.

17Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord,

and he will reward them for what they have done.

18Discipline your children, for in that there is hope;

do not be a willing party to their death.

19A hot-tempered person must pay the penalty;

rescue them, and you will have to do it again.

20Listen to advice and accept discipline,

and at the end you will be counted among the wise.

21Many are the plans in a person’s heart,

but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.

22What a person desires is unfailing love;

better to be poor than a liar.

23The fear of the Lord leads to life;

then one rests content, untouched by trouble.

24A sluggard buries his hand in the dish;

he will not even bring it back to his mouth!

25Flog a mocker, and the simple will learn prudence;

rebuke the discerning, and they will gain knowledge.

26Whoever robs their father and drives out their mother

is a child who brings shame and disgrace.

27Stop listening to instruction, my son,

and you will stray from the words of knowledge.

28A corrupt witness mocks at justice,

and the mouth of the wicked gulps down evil.

29Penalties are prepared for mockers,

and beatings for the backs of fools.