14 day plan

Philemon: Fixing Fellowship

Day 13 of 14

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Philemon 1:21-22

21Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.

22And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in answer to your prayers.

Reflection:  As Paul begins to wrap up his letter, he wants to show Philemon that he doesn’t want it to be awkward between them. Often when two people have a falling out and they work on restoring the relationship, it can be a bit awkward initially as the hard work of restoration plays out. Paul is wanting to assure Philemon that he doesn’t want it to be awkward. In fact, they are still dear friends. To show this, he tells him that he’s planning on seeing him in person. He wants to be there in person as soon as he can — when God answers their prayers for his release from house arrest in Rome. Paul is moving towards Philemon in love to demonstrate that there is no ill-will between them. This is a beautiful example for us to follow as we consider that often hard work of seeking restoration with others. It can be hard at times, but we are called to keep moving towards each other in love as we seek to be restored.

Where can you demonstrate the love of God in moving towards someone in love today?

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, you moved towards me in love before I even knew you. Grant me the grace and humility to do the same towards those around me. May you do this for your glory in the church and for the sake of Jesus.

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Philemon 1:1-25

1Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,

To Philemon our dear friend and fellow worker— 2also to Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier—and to the church that meets in your home:

3Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Thanksgiving and Prayer

4I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers, 5because I hear about your love for all his holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus. 6I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.

Paul’s Plea for Onesimus

8Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus— 10that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. 11Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.

12I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel. 14But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would not seem forced but would be voluntary. 15Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever— 16no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord.

17So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. 18If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me. 19I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand. I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in Christ. 21Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.

22And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in answer to your prayers.

23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings.

24And so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow workers.

25The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

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