14 day plan

Blessings

Day 2 of 14

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Proverbs 17:17

17A friend loves at all times,

and a brother is born for a time of adversity.

Reflection: Blessing Two – Family

Just about all of us have families, one way or another. They come in all shapes and sizes, and they are places of great love and joy. Yet they can cause us great tension and hurt. There are many Bible verses on families, parenting, children, grandchildren etc. This verse points to the simple reality that for most of us our families will stick with us no matter what, while many friends will come and go. Jesus himself had an earthly family and his mother was at his side at both his death and resurrection. In the New Testament when families are addressed, the children are spoken to directly as full members of the family of God’s people.

God loves families and recognises the need each of us has to have an earthly family, as much as the extended multi-generational family that is the people of God.

Count your blessings today, and as part of that, give thanks for your family, immediate and extended. Pray for God’s grace to love them and be a blessing to your them. Pray for wisdom for the family relationships that are challenging.

Prayer:  Almighty God and heavenly Father, your Son Jesus Christ shared at Nazareth the life of an earthly home. Bless our homes, we pray that parents and children may be bound to each other by mutual love and honour and come to a knowledge of your love for them; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. (A Prayer Book for Australia).

Proverbs 17:1-28

1Better a dry crust with peace and quiet

than a house full of feasting, with strife.

2A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son

and will share the inheritance as one of the family.

3The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold,

but the Lord tests the heart.

4A wicked person listens to deceitful lips;

a liar pays attention to a destructive tongue.

5Whoever mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker;

whoever gloats over disaster will not go unpunished.

6Children’s children are a crown to the aged,

and parents are the pride of their children.

7Eloquent lips are unsuited to a godless fool –

how much worse lying lips to a ruler!

8A bribe is seen as a charm by the one who gives it;

they think success will come at every turn.

9Whoever would foster love covers over an offence,

but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.

10A rebuke impresses a discerning person

more than a hundred lashes a fool.

11Evildoers foster rebellion against God;

the messenger of death will be sent against them.

12Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs

than a fool bent on folly.

13Evil will never leave the house

of one who pays back evil for good.

14Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam;

so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.

15Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent –

the Lord detests them both.

16Why should fools have money in hand to buy wisdom,

when they are not able to understand it?

17A friend loves at all times,

and a brother is born for a time of adversity.

18One who has no sense shakes hands in pledge

and puts up security for a neighbour.

19Whoever loves a quarrel loves sin;

whoever builds a high gate invites destruction.

20One whose heart is corrupt does not prosper;

one whose tongue is perverse falls into trouble.

21To have a fool for a child brings grief;

there is no joy for the parent of a godless fool.

22A cheerful heart is good medicine,

but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

23The wicked accept bribes in secret

to pervert the course of justice.

24A discerning person keeps wisdom in view,

but a fool’s eyes wander to the ends of the earth.

25A foolish son brings grief to his father

and bitterness to the mother who bore him.

26If imposing a fine on the innocent is not good,

surely to flog honest officials is not right.

27The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint,

and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.

28Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent,

and discerning if they hold their tongues.