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Mothers of the Bible

Day 3 of 14

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Genesis 27:1-4

1When Isaac was old and his eyes were so weak that he could no longer see, he called for his elder son Esau and said to him, ‘My son.’

‘Here I am,’ he answered.

2Isaac said, ‘I am now an old man and don’t know the day of my death. 3Now then, get your equipment – your quiver and bow – and go out to the open country to hunt some wild game for me. 4Prepare me the kind of tasty food I like and bring it to me to eat, so that I may give you my blessing before I die.’

Reflection:

Rebekah was chosen by God to be the wife of Isaac, Abraham’s son. God’s hand was over the entire arrangement, and we see that the expectation on Rebekah was not just to become a wife – it was to become a mother. The promises to Abraham – that his offspring would be as numerous as the stars, as the sand on the seashore – would be fulfilled through Isaac – and thus, through Rebekah. Everything was going well, until Rebekah failed to conceive a child after 20 years of marriage. So Isaac turned to God. He ‘prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife’, and the Lord answered his prayer – Rebekah became pregnant. It was not an easy pregnancy. We are told that the twin babies ‘jostled each other within her’ which I can only imagine would have been extremely uncomfortable and very alarming! So, again, they turned to God. Rebekah this time, inquired of the Lord, and received the explanation that the sons within her represented two nations who would struggle for dominance over each other. Rebekah held on to what God promised here, that ‘the older will serve the younger,’ and it perhaps motivated her manipulative actions later in life. When Isaac was dying, he wished to bless his eldest son Esau (Gen 27:1-4). Rebecca, who overheard, went to Jacob (her favourite son) and demanded he listen to her, and obey her, in deceiving his father, and receiving the blessing intended for Esau (Gen 27:6-13). Here we see Rebekah, as a mother, intervening in a deceitful and grasping way. She may have been remembering God’s promise about her sons from when she was pregnant, but she took matters into her own hands, and deceived her husband and eldest son in the process. As a result Jacob was forced to flee his enraged eldest brother, going to his uncle Laban in Haran; Rebekah never saw him again.  

Are you ever tempted to take situations into your own hands, and seek to control them rather than trust God to fulfil his promise in his own way and his own time? How can we seek to do better than Rebekah? 

 

Prayer:

Dear Father God, thank you that you are in control. Thank you that even though we, like Rebekah, act in rebellion against you, you reach out with grace and redeem us through your son Jesus. Thank you that like Jacob, we receive your blessing of salvation, no matter how unworthy we are. Please help us to trust in your sovereign and loving control in our lives. Amen.

Genesis 27:1-46

1When Isaac was old and his eyes were so weak that he could no longer see, he called for his elder son Esau and said to him, ‘My son.’

‘Here I am,’ he answered.

2Isaac said, ‘I am now an old man and don’t know the day of my death. 3Now then, get your equipment – your quiver and bow – and go out to the open country to hunt some wild game for me. 4Prepare me the kind of tasty food I like and bring it to me to eat, so that I may give you my blessing before I die.’

5Now Rebekah was listening as Isaac spoke to his son Esau. When Esau left for the open country to hunt game and bring it back, 6Rebekah said to her son Jacob, ‘Look, I overheard your father say to your brother Esau, 7“Bring me some game and prepare me some tasty food to eat, so that I may give you my blessing in the presence of the Lord before I die.” 8Now, my son, listen carefully and do what I tell you: 9go out to the flock and bring me two choice young goats, so that I can prepare some tasty food for your father, just the way he likes it. 10Then take it to your father to eat, so that he may give you his blessing before he dies.’

11Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, ‘But my brother Esau is a hairy man while I have smooth skin. 12What if my father touches me? I would appear to be tricking him and would bring down a curse on myself rather than a blessing.’

13His mother said to him, ‘My son, let the curse fall on me. Just do what I say; go and get them for me.’

14So he went and got them and brought them to his mother, and she prepared some tasty food, just the way his father liked it. 15Then Rebekah took the best clothes of her elder son Esau, which she had in the house, and put them on her younger son Jacob. 16She also covered his hands and the smooth part of his neck with the goatskins. 17Then she handed to her son Jacob the tasty food and the bread she had made.

18He went to his father and said, ‘My father.’

‘Yes, my son,’ he answered. ‘Who is it?’

19Jacob said to his father, ‘I am Esau your firstborn. I have done as you told me. Please sit up and eat some of my game, so that you may give me your blessing.’

20Isaac asked his son, ‘How did you find it so quickly, my son?’

‘The Lord your God gave me success,’ he replied.

21Then Isaac said to Jacob, ‘Come near so I can touch you, my son, to know whether you really are my son Esau or not.’

22Jacob went close to his father Isaac, who touched him and said, ‘The voice is the voice of Jacob, but the hands are the hands of Esau.’ 23He did not recognise him, for his hands were hairy like those of his brother Esau; so he proceeded to bless him. 24‘Are you really my son Esau?’ he asked.

‘I am,’ he replied.

25Then he said, ‘My son, bring me some of your game to eat, so that I may give you my blessing.’

Jacob brought it to him and he ate; and he brought some wine and he drank. 26Then his father Isaac said to him, ‘Come here, my son, and kiss me.’

27So he went to him and kissed him. When Isaac caught the smell of his clothes, he blessed him and said,

‘Ah, the smell of my son

is like the smell of a field

that the Lord has blessed.

28May God give you heaven’s dew

and earth’s richness –

an abundance of grain and new wine.

29May nations serve you

and peoples bow down to you.

Be lord over your brothers,

and may the sons of your mother bow down to you.

May those who curse you be cursed

and those who bless you be blessed.’

30After Isaac finished blessing him, and Jacob had scarcely left his father’s presence, his brother Esau came in from hunting. 31He too prepared some tasty food and brought it to his father. Then he said to him, ‘My father, please sit up and eat some of my game, so that you may give me your blessing.’

32His father Isaac asked him, ‘Who are you?’

‘I am your son,’ he answered, ‘your firstborn, Esau.’

33Isaac trembled violently and said, ‘Who was it, then, that hunted game and brought it to me? I ate it just before you came and I blessed him – and indeed he will be blessed!’

34When Esau heard his father’s words, he burst out with a loud and bitter cry and said to his father, ‘Bless me – me too, my father!’

35But he said, ‘Your brother came deceitfully and took your blessing.’

36Esau said, ‘Isn’t he rightly named Jacob? This is the second time he has taken advantage of me: he took my birthright, and now he’s taken my blessing!’ Then he asked, ‘Haven’t you reserved any blessing for me?’

37Isaac answered Esau, ‘I have made him lord over you and have made all his relatives his servants, and I have sustained him with grain and new wine. So what can I possibly do for you, my son?’

38Esau said to his father, ‘Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father!’ Then Esau wept aloud.

39His father Isaac answered him,

‘Your dwelling will be

away from the earth’s richness,

away from the dew of heaven above.

40You will live by the sword

and you will serve your brother.

But when you grow restless,

you will throw his yoke

from off your neck.’

41Esau held a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him. He said to himself, ‘The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.’

42When Rebekah was told what her elder son Esau had said, she sent for her younger son Jacob and said to him, ‘Your brother Esau is planning to avenge himself by killing you. 43Now then, my son, do what I say: flee at once to my brother Laban in Harran. 44Stay with him for a while until your brother’s fury subsides. 45When your brother is no longer angry with you and forgets what you did to him, I’ll send word for you to come back from there. Why should I lose both of you in one day?’

46Then Rebekah said to Isaac, ‘I’m disgusted with living because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a wife from among the women of this land, from Hittite women like these, my life will not be worth living.’