Reflection:
Rebekah was chosen by God to be the wife of Isaac, Abraham’s son. God’s hand was over the entire arrangement, and we see that the expectation on Rebekah was not just to become a wife – it was to become a mother. The promises to Abraham – that his offspring would be as numerous as the stars, as the sand on the seashore – would be fulfilled through Isaac – and thus, through Rebekah. Everything was going well, until Rebekah failed to conceive a child after 20 years of marriage. So Isaac turned to God. He ‘prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife’, and the Lord answered his prayer – Rebekah became pregnant. It was not an easy pregnancy. We are told that the twin babies ‘jostled each other within her’ which I can only imagine would have been extremely uncomfortable and very alarming! So, again, they turned to God. Rebekah this time, inquired of the Lord, and received the explanation that the sons within her represented two nations who would struggle for dominance over each other. Rebekah held on to what God promised here, that ‘the older will serve the younger,’ and it perhaps motivated her manipulative actions later in life. When Isaac was dying, he wished to bless his eldest son Esau (Gen 27:1-4). Rebecca, who overheard, went to Jacob (her favourite son) and demanded he listen to her, and obey her, in deceiving his father, and receiving the blessing intended for Esau (Gen 27:6-13). Here we see Rebekah, as a mother, intervening in a deceitful and grasping way. She may have been remembering God’s promise about her sons from when she was pregnant, but she took matters into her own hands, and deceived her husband and eldest son in the process. As a result Jacob was forced to flee his enraged eldest brother, going to his uncle Laban in Haran; Rebekah never saw him again.
Are you ever tempted to take situations into your own hands, and seek to control them rather than trust God to fulfil his promise in his own way and his own time? How can we seek to do better than Rebekah?
Prayer:
Dear Father God, thank you that you are in control. Thank you that even though we, like Rebekah, act in rebellion against you, you reach out with grace and redeem us through your son Jesus. Thank you that like Jacob, we receive your blessing of salvation, no matter how unworthy we are. Please help us to trust in your sovereign and loving control in our lives. Amen.