14 day plan

Mothers of the Bible

Day 14 of 14

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Proverbs 31:26-30

26She speaks with wisdom,

and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

27She watches over the affairs of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

29‘Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all.’

30Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

Reflection:

The woman described in Proverbs 31:10-31 is often upheld as an example of an exceptional wife. In these verses we read that ‘her children arise and call her blessed’, so we can see that her qualities also make her an exceptional mother. With a positive outlook and approach, this passage can give anyone – whether a mother or not – admirable characteristics to focus on and prayerfully seek to acquire.

This lady is full of diligence in providing for her household, and has a servant heart; she is motivated and busy in providing food for her family (verse 15). She has vigour in her daily tasks, and keeps busy and purposeful. She is compassionate to those in need, and acts to help them (verse 20). She is described as being ‘clothed with strength and dignity’ (verse 25). She ‘speaks with wisdom’ and gives ‘faithful instruction’ (verse 26). She is not idle.  Most importantly, in all that she does, this woman ‘fears the Lord’, and by her life shows that this is the most important thing, because charm is deceptive, and beauty is a fleeting thing. 

How does the example of this ‘woman of noble character’ inspire you? Are there any character traits in particular that challenge you, or that you would like to prayerfully cultivate in your own life? 

Prayer:

Dear Father, we pray that in all things, we would put you first, just as this woman did. Please grant us wisdom, so that we may speak it to others and offer faithful instruction to those around us. Please give us diligence in our daily tasks, a servant heart towards those in our lives, and compassion towards those in need. Please give us your perspective, so that we can recognise those things which are passing away, and are not worth seeking, and those things which honour you and last for eternity. Amen.

Proverbs 31:1-31

Sayings of King Lemuel

1The sayings of King Lemuel – an inspired utterance his mother taught him.

2Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!

Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!

3Do not spend your strength on women,

your vigour on those who ruin kings.

4It is not for kings, Lemuel –

it is not for kings to drink wine,

not for rulers to crave beer,

5lest they drink and forget what has been decreed,

and deprive all the oppressed of their rights.

6Let beer be for those who are perishing,

wine for those who are in anguish!

7Let them drink and forget their poverty

and remember their misery no more.

8Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,

for the rights of all who are destitute.

9Speak up and judge fairly;

defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Epilogue: the wife of noble character

10 A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.

11Her husband has full confidence in her

and lacks nothing of value.

12She brings him good, not harm,

all the days of her life.

13She selects wool and flax

and works with eager hands.

14She is like the merchant ships,

bringing her food from afar.

15She gets up while it is still night;

she provides food for her family

and portions for her female servants.

16She considers a field and buys it;

out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17She sets about her work vigorously;

her arms are strong for her tasks.

18She sees that her trading is profitable,

and her lamp does not go out at night.

19In her hand she holds the distaff

and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

20She opens her arms to the poor

and extends her hands to the needy.

21When it snows, she has no fear for her household;

for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

22She makes coverings for her bed;

she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

23Her husband is respected at the city gate,

where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

24She makes linen garments and sells them,

and supplies the merchants with sashes.

25She is clothed with strength and dignity;

she can laugh at the days to come.

26She speaks with wisdom,

and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

27She watches over the affairs of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:

29‘Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all.’

30Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

31Honour her for all that her hands have done,

and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.