14 day plan

How do I know God’s guidance?

Day 9 of 14

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Proverbs 15:22

22Plans fail for lack of counsel,

but with many advisors they succeed.

ReflectionCheck 2 – Seek reputable advice

It is rare for wisdom regarding a course of action to be so new that people haven’t encountered it before. So, seek that wisdom. As the Bible says: seek the ‘ancient paths’ that righteous people have trod earlier in history and learn from them (Jeremiah 6:16).

Not only can we learn from the wisdom of history, but we can seek the wisdom of wise and spiritually mature people. As the book of Proverbs says: ‘The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice’ (Proverbs 12:15).

It is important, of course, not to select those you go to for advice because they are the ones most likely to agree with you. Similarly, don’t choose those who are intimidated by you. Your advisors need to be able to challenge you. Tragically, leaders of some of the world’s big churches have fallen into this trap.

It is also important that you don’t let your advisors make the decision for you. The Bible gives us a warning about that in 1 Kings 13:15-22. You must be comfortable enough with your decision to take full responsibility for it.

Prayer:  Dear Lord, you are the final definition of all that is wise. May I treasure your wisdom. Give me the passion to seek it out from your word and from your people.

Proverbs 15:1-33

1A gentle answer turns away wrath,

but a harsh word stirs up anger.

2The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge,

but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.

3The eyes of the Lord are everywhere,

keeping watch on the wicked and the good.

4The soothing tongue is a tree of life,

but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.

5A fool spurns a parent’s discipline,

but whoever heeds correction shows prudence.

6The house of the righteous contains great treasure,

but the income of the wicked brings ruin.

7The lips of the wise spread knowledge,

but the hearts of fools are not upright.

8The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked,

but the prayer of the upright pleases him.

9The Lord detests the way of the wicked,

but he loves those who pursue righteousness.

10Stern discipline awaits anyone who leaves the path;

the one who hates correction will die.

11Death and Destruction lie open before the Lord

how much more do human hearts!

12Mockers resent correction,

so they avoid the wise.

13A happy heart makes the face cheerful,

but heartache crushes the spirit.

14The discerning heart seeks knowledge,

but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly.

15All the days of the oppressed are wretched,

but the cheerful heart has a continual feast.

16Better a little with the fear of the Lord

than great wealth with turmoil.

17Better a dish of vegetables with love

than a fattened calf with hatred.

18A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict,

but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.

19The way of the sluggard is blocked with thorns,

but the path of the upright is a highway.

20A wise son brings joy to his father,

but a foolish man despises his mother.

21Folly brings joy to one who has no sense,

but whoever has understanding keeps a straight course.

22Plans fail for lack of counsel,

but with many advisors they succeed.

23A person finds joy in giving an apt reply –

and how good is a timely word!

24The path of life leads upward for the prudent

to keep them from going down to the realm of the dead.

25The Lord tears down the house of the proud,

but he sets the widow’s boundary stones in place.

26The Lord detests the thoughts of the wicked,

but gracious words are pure in his sight.

27The greedy bring ruin to their households,

but the one who hates bribes will live.

28The heart of the righteous weighs its answers,

but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.

29The Lord is far from the wicked,

but he hears the prayer of the righteous.

30Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart,

and good news gives health to the bones.

31Whoever heeds life-giving correction

will be at home among the wise.

32Those who disregard discipline despise themselves,

but the one who heeds correction gains understanding.

33Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the Lord,

and humility comes before honour.