14 day plan

Family Peacemaking

Day 7 of 14

CEV

Colossians 3:15

15Each one of you is part of the body of Christ, and you were chosen to live together in peace. So let the peace that comes from Christ control your thoughts. And be grateful.

Reflection:  For further reading see Matthew 7:3-5

Peace-faking is different to peace-making.  Peace fakers are people predisposed to having peace at any cost. They prefer peace over truth and see peace as the absence of any kind of conflict. They’ll go to great lengths to avoid confrontation and in doing so, they’ll settle for a counterfeit peace based on avoiding reality.

Although many offenses can and should be overlooked, some things are so harmful that they should be confronted.

There are times when we should rightly speak to another person about their contribution to a conflict – not because we are wholly right and they are wholly wrong – but because of a genuine desire for restoration and reconciliation… after we’ve taken the log out of our own eye. It’s amazing how much clarity we have about everyone else’s sins and offences but struggle to acknowledge and confess our own.

Question: Do you have a ‘log’ in your own eye?  Can you (and are you prepared to) articulate what this is?

Prayer:  Lord, give me courage to truthfully identify those areas of my life that I am currently blind to.  And only after examining myself, I pray that you would give me wisdom and clarity about those things that you call me to confront in others.

Colossians 3:1-25

1 You have been raised to life with Christ. Now set your heart on what is in heaven, where Christ rules at God's right side. 2Think about what is up there, not about what is here on earth. 3You died, which means that your life is hidden with Christ, who sits beside God. 4Christ gives meaning to your life, and when he appears, you will also appear with him in glory.

5Don't be controlled by your body. Kill every desire for the wrong kind of sex. Don't be immoral or indecent or have evil thoughts. Don't be greedy, which is the same as worshiping idols. 6God is angry with people who disobey him by doing these things. 7And this is exactly what you did, when you lived among people who behaved in this way. 8But now you must stop doing such things. You must quit being angry, hateful, and evil. You must no longer say insulting or cruel things about others. 9 And stop lying to each other. You have given up your old way of life with its habits.

10 Each of you is now a new person. You are becoming more and more like your Creator, and you will understand him better. 11It doesn't matter if you are a Greek or a Jew, or if you are circumcised or not. You may even be a barbarian or a Scythian, and you may be a slave or a free person. Yet Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us.

12 God loves you and has chosen you as his own special people. So be gentle, kind, humble, meek, and patient. 13 Put up with each other, and forgive anyone who does you wrong, just as Christ has forgiven you. 14Love is more important than anything else. It is what ties everything completely together.

15Each one of you is part of the body of Christ, and you were chosen to live together in peace. So let the peace that comes from Christ control your thoughts. And be grateful. 16 Let the message about Christ completely fill your lives, while you use all your wisdom to teach and instruct each other. With thankful hearts, sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs to God. 17Whatever you say or do should be done in the name of the Lord Jesus, as you give thanks to God the Father because of him.

Some Rules for Christian Living

18 A wife must put her husband first. This is her duty as a follower of the Lord.

19 A husband must love his wife and not abuse her.

20 Children must always obey their parents. This pleases the Lord.

21 Parents, don't be hard on your children. If you are, they might give up.

22 Slaves, you must always obey your earthly masters. Try to please them at all times, and not just when you think they are watching. Honor the Lord and serve your masters with your whole heart. 23Do your work willingly, as though you were serving the Lord himself, and not just your earthly master. 24In fact, the Lord Christ is the one you are really serving, and you know he will reward you. 25 But Christ has no favorites! He will punish evil people, just as they deserve.